We don't need more stuff. Instead of toasters and cutlery sets, consider picking from this list.
Pet a dog or a cat
Say hi to a bird
Look at the moon when it's especially being a moon
Go on a walk and find a cool rock
Next time you see a bee, just watch it for a while
Get out a piece of paper and 5 crayons and see what happens
Say yes to trying something that you aren't "good at"
Flip over a log and look for cool bugs
Go on a walk and find something in each color of the rainbow
Try a beer flight, see if theres a kind you actually like
Cancel a subscription, uninstall a social media app, or change your default search engine
Pick a favorite tree, check if it has a face
If you really, really, really want to get us a gift, then the morning of the wedding, go to the Eugene Saturday Market and pick out the weirdest thing you can find.